Of course you want sex right? You’d have to be mad not to. And the mere fact that you’re reading this is testament to the fact. We’re here to help you get it. However, there is a commonly held belief that some people who use adult dating sites are not entirely “up for it” or they’ve done it for fun etc. You don’t want to join a site that’s a waste of your time right? Are the women like their profiles suggest?
This is a very commonly asked question, and one that most men need to know the answer to before they reply to an ad that suggests they may actually get what they want. As humans we are naturally suspicious of anything that claims to be “too good”. However, with online dating, our research suggests that the percentage of girls who are actually posting genuine adverts is extraordinarily high.
The true personality
When you read an ad that tells you the girl you’re looking at is interested in group sex for example, the chances are that she really is interested. She may be yet to try it, but the mere fact that she is putting herself out there on a dating site is testament to the fact that she would if she could.
Now, we’re not saying that she wouldn’t hesitate a little, but the seed is certainly planted. An online dating site is a place where people can show their true personalities; and express their sexual preferences to like minded people. Some of the girls you see on adult dating sites write really crazy profiles and sound like absolute sex fiends. The chances are that they really are sex fiends and they can’t wait to get some action. All you have to do is think for one second: why else would they put an ad on an adult dating site?
Being honest “If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything” Mark Twain (Writer)
The chances are that you’re going to meet the person you’ve been messaging and they are going to want the same (otherwise you wouldn’t be there), so in this case it becomes pointless to tell lies and pretend you’re something you’re not. It’s proven that people who write real and honest adult dating profiles about themselves are 80% more likely to get lucky. Meeting someone: Will they be the same?
It would be wrong of us to suggest that when you contact someone through an adult dating ad that they are likely to be the same as the person you’ve been messaging online. This will not be the case of course. However, it’s important to note that at this point, this is not because the person isn’t genuine. They wouldn’t have agreed to meet you if this was the case. Those desires and preferences etc that they made clear to you online will be exactly the same, but the internet has provided this person a shelter in which they can explore their desires and communicate them freely with others without the risk of actually meeting the people they flirt with. You must remember this.
When you actually meet someone it’s important to remember what they wrote online because this is their true personality, but you must also respect that this person must contend with social boundaries and confront issues of personal safety. You can be sure that the person you meet will be thinking the same, and once they feel comfortable, all those things that you talked about will come to pass and you’ll have one hell of a time.
Adult dating is real! When you meet for the first time in a bar or restaurant or wherever, they may not sit there and talk to you about loving anal sex, or their desires to dress up like a French maid for you in the same way as they did online, but don’t be disappointed. They agreed to meet with you, and the mere fact that you have been communicating online is a sure sign that they’re interested. Adult dating is, and will be continue to be, the best way to meet partners for casual sex, simply because both parties signed up for exactly the same thing. There’s no grey area here!
“Sex is nature, and I believe in going along with nature!” Marilyn Monroe